“I noticed that although everyone joked about boys masturbating, no one talked about girls doing it. Ever. In fact, female pleasure was completely ignored, not only by sex education, but by my peers themselves. Clitoris? What’s that? I remember a friend in 9th grade being made fun of because she had let a boy finger her. I was confused, both at why they were making fun of her and not him, and why no one was talking about how it would feel GOOD to have someone finger you!”
